To My Bestie, You Deserve More Than An Unloyal Douche

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I won’t beat around the bush, bestie, so here’s the truthHe’s cheating on you. I wish it weren’t true, I wish I could make it untrue, but the fact is… he hasn’t been loyal to you.

He’s not the man you think he is and quite frankly, he never was. All those promises he made to you, all those nights you stayed up telling yourself not to worry, trying to convince yourself you were just overthinking, well, your gut was right.

He was having the time of his life, laughing and flirting with another woman. He was ignoring your texts on purpose, turning his phone over, so his date wouldn’t see your name pop up on his screen.

It’s so unfair for you to be left in the dark, so out of everyone that could tell you the truth, I want to be the one to tell you.

Because I know who you are from the deepest depths of your soul. I know how much you love him and how you’d do anything for him – It’s just in your nature to put everyone, especially him, before yourself. You’ve been the best friend to me, and the best woman you could’ve possibly been to him, but all he did was take you for granted.

And the last thing I want is for you to go blaming yourself, thinking you should’ve known or seen the signs. Because believe me, this conniving mother fucker knew what he was doing. He played us all, which makes me think this isn’t his first time at the rodeo.

Please remember you did nothing wrong in this situation, you gave him all of you and he took and took and took until there was nothing left. You don’t deserve this and I wish I could take the heartache away from you and suffer through it myself.

See, men like him are manipulative and toxic. He knew damn well how sweet and kind you are and used that to his advantage. You’re the type to not be clingy, to not freak out over every little detail. In fact, you’re chill AF and probably the only girlfriend out there who don’t hover over their guy like a helicopter.  I just wish you had a guy who appreciated that about you, instead of using it against you.

And it breaks my heart that he tried to get away with it. Honestly, I think he would’ve never told you. He’s not a good man, I’m sorry but he’s not. He doesn’t have the balls to come clean. If he did, he would’ve fessed up a long time ago– hell, he never would’ve gone messing around with another woman. But here we are.

He doesn’t deserve your tears. Please don’t waste another second thinking about him. You need to cut him out of your life like he never existed. I know it won’t be easy, but I’ll be by your side every step of the way. You’re better than he ever was, finally, I can say that out loud.

You’ll get through this, I promise. You’re stronger than you believe. Him, though? He’ll live a miserable life because if the greatest woman like you couldn’t make him happy then no one will.

PuckerMob

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